You have spent months and months preparing for your special day. How could anything possibly go wrong? Murphy’s Law! A few weeks ago a bride had locked herself in her room because the weather was a proverbial flood. This is where your attendants can help. Give one of them access to some funds to deal with anything financial that could come up. Make another in charge of your guests and their issues. But keep the best and most positive person for yourself.  You may need a “The glass is always 1/2 full” type of gal to help you turn the most stressful moments into something you can laugh at when all things appear to be going wrong. Remember……. you want your day to be memorable, not perfect!